First, a quick personal note:
If you noticed a few days' quiet here on Because Crime Doesn’t Pay (Enough) - you're absolutely right. Life and work pulled me into a few big projects recently, and posting paused for a moment.
But I'm back now, and regular updates are resuming from today. Thanks for your patience - and for proving that community in law isn’t just about cases; it’s about showing up.

And speaking of unrealistic expectations... today's myth to bust is this:

“Real lawyers never miss a beat. They’re always perfect, always on time, and always available.”

Let’s be real: that's not law — that’s legend.

Law Is a Human Profession

In law school and early practice, you’re often sold the idea that being a "real lawyer" means being invincible. No late deadlines. No missed details. No off days.

In reality? Lawyers are human.
And the legal system — despite its high standards — was designed with the understanding that humans run it.

Judges grant adjournments. Clients reschedule. Supervisors ask for updates, not miracles.

Professionalism isn't about never missing a beat. It's about recognising when something needs adjusting, communicating clearly, and restoring focus.

Mythbusting the "Flawless Lawyer" Ideal

Some truths the TV shows won’t tell you:

  • Good lawyers sometimes need extensions.
  • Brilliant advocates sometimes fumble a question - and recover.
  • Diligent solicitors sometimes delay a project to prioritise strategy over speed.

Being effective in law isn’t about avoiding mistakes - it’s about handling them with clarity, honesty, and resilience.

Why This Matters

If we perpetuate the myth that “real” legal professionals never falter, we create:

  • Burnout
  • Imposter syndrome
  • Toxic work environments
  • Unrealistic client expectations

And worse? We push good people out of a profession that desperately needs more humanity, not less.

Final Thought: Grace Under Pressure is the Real Skill

So yes, sometimes you’ll miss a beat - in law, in blogging, in life.

But showing up again, learning, improving, and moving forward?
That’s the mark of a lawyer worth trusting.